
Titles in This Set
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
The Come As You Are Workbook: A Practical Guide to the Science of Sex
Details
Condition: Brand New
Format: Paperback
ISBN: 9781476762098; 9781982107321
Publisher: Simon & Schuster
Overview
This two-book collection brings together Emily Nagoski's New York Times bestseller Come As You Are with its practical companion, The Come As You Are Workbook. These paperbacks offer a complete path from understanding to action: the original book unpacks the science behind female sexuality and the Dual Control Model of arousal and desire, while the workbook turns those insights into hands-on exercises and journaling prompts. Written by a sex educator with a PhD in health behavior, this set is an evidence-based guide for building a more confident, satisfying sex life.
About the Books
Emily Nagoski's Come As You Are became a New York Times bestseller because it finally explained why women's sexuality had been misunderstood for generations. Drawing on more than a decade of research, Nagoski introduces the Dual Control Model, showing that arousal and inhibition operate as separate systems shaped by context, stress, mood, and body image rather than by anatomy alone. The book dismantles common myths about desire and orgasm, replacing shame with science and giving readers a framework for understanding their own sexual response.
The Come As You Are Workbook turns that framework into practice. Readers work through guided journaling prompts, illustrated diagrams, and self-assessment exercises designed to map their own arousal patterns, identify stressors affecting intimacy, and experiment with strategies for more pleasurable, pressure-free sex. It can be used solo or worked through with a partner to build communication and trust, and references concepts from the original book throughout.
Paired, these two paperbacks move a reader from insight to action: one explains why sex works the way it does, and the other helps put that understanding into daily practice.
Key Benefits
Book-by-Book Guide
Come As You Are — Nagoski's New York Times bestseller introduces the Dual Control Model, explaining how context, stress, and body image shape female arousal and desire.
The Come As You Are Workbook — This 224-page companion turns that research into guided journaling prompts, diagrams, and self-assessment exercises for hands-on practice.
About the Author
Dr. Emily Nagoski is a sex educator with a PhD in health behavior and an MS in counseling, both from Indiana University, including a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She spent two decades researching and teaching the science of women's sexual wellbeing before writing Come As You Are, the New York Times bestseller that reframed how readers understand desire and arousal. She is also the coauthor of Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle, written with her twin sister, Amelia Nagoski. Nagoski remains one of the most trusted voices in sex education today.
Why You'll Love This Set
This set pairs proven science with practical action, making it a thoughtful gift for a bridal shower, birthday, or "just for me" self-care moment. Whether you're rethinking old myths about desire or looking to deepen intimacy with a partner, these paperbacks offer honest, judgment-free guidance you can start using tonight.
Please Note: This is the UK edition with the ISBN as listed; the cover may vary slightly from the image shown.
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