
Titles in This Set
State of Affairs
Mating in Captivity
Come As You Are
Details
Condition: Brand New
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Yellow Kite, Hodder & Stoughton, Scribe UK
Overview
This three-book paperback collection brings together two of the most trusted voices in modern relationship psychology. Esther Perel's State of Affairs and Mating in Captivity unpack infidelity and long-term desire with clinical insight and warmth, while Emily Nagoski's Come As You Are reframes the science of female sexuality with clear, evidence-based guidance. Together they form an honest library for anyone curious about love, intimacy, and connection in real relationships, whether newly dating, long-married, or hoping to understand desire and commitment with more nuance and less judgment.
About the Books
This collection pairs Esther Perel's therapeutic authority with Emily Nagoski's research-driven approach to sexuality, moving from crisis to connection to self-understanding. State of Affairs, a New York Times bestseller, challenges the assumption that infidelity is simply a moral failure, instead treating it as a window into unmet emotional needs and offering a compassionate framework for healing. Mating in Captivity, described by its publisher as an international bestseller, turns to couples who are not in crisis but simply losing heat, examining why security and eroticism pull against each other in a committed partnership. Come As You Are closes the set with Emily Nagoski's research-backed explanation of how female arousal and desire actually work, dismantling popular myths about "normal" sexuality. Read together, the three titles create a natural arc: understanding what goes wrong, keeping intimacy alive over time, and building a kinder relationship with one's own body. The tone throughout is empathetic rather than clinical, grounded in real client stories and current research, making it immediately useful for therapists, book clubs, and couples alike.
Key Benefits
Book-by-Book Guide
State of Affairs — Esther Perel's New York Times bestseller reframes infidelity as an expression of longing rather than simple betrayal, offering a compassionate path toward understanding and repair.
Mating in Captivity — an international bestseller in which Perel examines why couples struggle to hold onto erotic aliveness once a relationship feels secure and routine.
Come As You Are — Emily Nagoski's revised and updated guide uses current research to explain the science of arousal and desire, helping readers understand their own sexuality without shame.
About the Authors
Esther Perel is a psychotherapist and relationship expert whose talks on infidelity and desire have been viewed tens of millions of times online; she runs a therapy practice in New York City and hosts the podcasts Where Should We Begin? and How's Work?. Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., is a sex educator and researcher whose work translates the science of arousal and desire into practical, shame-free guidance for everyday readers. Together, their combined body of work spans therapy rooms, research labs, and bestseller lists, giving this set real-world credibility alongside genuine warmth and readability.
Why You'll Love This Collection
Honest, research-backed, and refreshingly free of judgment, this collection is a smart pick for anniversary gifts, engagement presents, book clubs, or anyone starting a season of reflection on love and intimacy. Three trusted voices, one paperback collection, endless conversation starters for couples, friends, therapists, or your own nightstand this year.
Please Note: This is the UK edition with the ISBN as listed; the cover may vary slightly from the image shown.
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