
Titles in This Set
Fight Right
Eight Dates
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
Details
Condition: Brand New
Format: Paperback
ISBN: 9780241598375 / 9780241988350 / 9781398718395
Publisher: Penguin Life, Orion
Overview
This paperback collection brings together three of Dr. John Gottman's most trusted relationship guides: Fight Right, Eight Dates, and The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. Drawing on decades of research from the Gottman Institute, the set moves from resolving conflict, to planning meaningful conversations, to building a long-term foundation for a happy marriage. Fight Right shows couples how to argue without damaging trust. Eight Dates offers eight structured conversations that deepen intimacy. The Seven Principles distills landmark studies into everyday habits couples can use for years to come.
About the Books
Each title tackles a different piece of what makes relationships last. Fight Right, by John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman, reframes conflict as an opportunity rather than a threat, identifying common missteps that turn small disagreements into lasting resentment, and offering scripts for repairing ruptures and rebuilding trust after a hard conversation. Eight Dates, co-written with Doug Abrams and Rachel Carlton Abrams, turns Gottman's research into eight guided date nights built around topics couples often avoid, from money and family to intimacy and dreams, making it easier to talk through what matters most. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, written with longtime collaborator Nan Silver, is the book that first brought Gottman's Love Lab findings to a general audience, laying out habits such as building love maps and managing conflict without contempt. All three lean on decades of observational research with real couples, translating findings into exercises readers can use the same evening, whether newlyweds or long-married partners working through the collection side by side.
Key Benefits
Book-by-Book Guide
Fight Right — teaches couples to transform heated arguments into moments of connection using Gottman's conflict research.
Eight Dates — structures eight essential conversations, from finances to intimacy, into simple date-night formats.
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work — distills the Gottman Institute's Love Lab studies into seven practices for a lasting marriage.
About the Authors
John Gottman, PhD, co-founded the Gottman Institute and is best known for his decades-long research into what makes marriages succeed or fail, much of it conducted in his renowned Love Lab. Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD, is a clinical psychologist and his co-author on Fight Right and Eight Dates. Nan Silver, his longtime collaborator, helped translate his findings into The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. Doug Abrams and Rachel Carlton Abrams co-wrote Eight Dates, adding storytelling and medical insight to the couple's research-based guidance.
Why You'll Love This Collection
This trio gives couples a complete relationship toolkit in one paperback set: tools for fighting fair, prompts for deeper conversation, and habits for the long haul. It's a thoughtful engagement or wedding gift, a meaningful anniversary present, or a practical pick for couples counseling and book clubs focused on connection.
Please Note: This is the UK edition with the ISBN as listed; the cover may vary slightly from the image shown.
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